Oh, the holidays! A time for joy, cheer, family gatherings, and – if you’re navigating a transition for your aging parents – maybe a hint of apprehension. The decision to help your parents move to a senior living community can be tough, especially around the festive season. But with a little planning and sensitivity, you can make the transition smoother for everyone involved.
So, how do you balance the twinkling lights and holiday carols with the bittersweet moment of helping your parents start a new chapter? Let’s dive into five tips to make it a little easier.
5 ways to make it easier to move your parents to senior living during the holidays
1. Open the conversation early: It’s crucial to involve your parents in the decision-making process from the start. Instead of springing it on them last minute, begin the conversation early. Discuss their feelings and concerns, and make sure they understand that their happiness and comfort are your top priorities.
2. Blend old traditions with new ones: The idea of leaving behind familiar surroundings can be daunting. But what if your parents could carry their beloved traditions into their new home? Plan a holiday decorating day where the family helps set up their new space with festive trimmings. You could also bring some of their favorite holiday treats like cookies or other baked goods to their new community and celebrate together, just like old times.
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3. Help them connect with their new neighbors: One of the great things about senior living communities is that they’re full of potential new friends! Encourage your parents to attend the community’s holiday events. Not only will it help them feel more at home, but they’ll also get the chance to make new holiday memories and perhaps even learn about different traditions.
4. Acknowledge that it’s an emotional journey: Change, even when it’s for the best, comes with mixed emotions. Your parents might be excited one day and anxious the next. That’s perfectly okay. Take some time to sit with them, maybe over a plate of holiday cookies, and chat about their feelings. Acknowledge their concerns and remind them of all the new opportunities they’ll have in their new community.
5. Seek support for yourself: This journey isn’t just about your parents; it’s about you too. Taking on the responsibility of facilitating this transition can be overwhelming, especially during the holiday hustle and bustle. Don’t hesitate to lean on friends, family, or support groups who understand your situation. Remember, it’s okay to seek comfort for yourself, just as you’re providing it for your parents.
The holidays are a time of change and reflection, and helping your parents move during this season can indeed bring its challenges. However, with understanding, patience, and a sprinkle of holiday magic, you can help your parents embrace this new chapter with warmth and joy. After all, the essence of the holidays is to be surrounded by love, no matter where you are.
Still looking for a welcoming place that will be a good fit for your parents? Contact one of our communities near you. For more information about the assisted living lifestyle that a senior living community can offer, check out our free ebook, Just the Facts: Your Guide to Assisted Living.
